Two years ago, my wife was unaware of my interest in BZj and I was not playing much. Then, when we started getting casino mailers, I explained that the casino sent those and other free offers because of my position and income and she bought it. I made casino visits while telling her I was off to visit my brother (about 2 hours away). After my first year of consistent winning, I showed her my records, explained what had paid for our Florida vacation and she was shocked. She was a bit angry that I had made casino trips while she thought I was at my brothers but seeing the win/loss record, she was okay. All her stereo types were still there and she occasionally expresses that I might be addicted or may lose all my retirement savings. Then I got comped rooms in Las Vegas, we flew out and she had a grand time. She accepts it now but I only play part time, my main income comes from my regular job. I have begun giving 10% of my monthly BJ winnings to her, the rest go to my BR.
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