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Originally Posted by
aalborg
I keep bankroll separate of all finances, it doesn’t exist in our budget. I work fine dining and was able to start my bank roll with handshakes. How do y’all sell your spouses on BJ? She wants me to spend my winnings on a dinner when I come back from whichever state I went to. I’m trying to build bankroll.
I have only been playing for about 6 years, and counting for only approximately the last 4...had to go through the ploppy learning curve like most. Shortly after I started counting I decided I was going to approach this as a business, filed an LLC, and notified my spouse that this activity would be pursued with the same business acumen as my other businesses and that whenever she wanted to look at the books, as with my other businesses, all she had to do was ask. She has only asked once and I happened to be on a + variance upswing at the time (fortunately) and she has never asked since. I make sure we take advantage of all non-playing (RFB) comps together and I believe that has pacified any resistance she initially may have had...and when we do take advantage of an RFB comp I teller her to say: "thank you blackjack"...and then we both laugh. In my case, I think keeping bankroll separate from household finances was a crucial factor in her acceptance and support. In fact, she knows how much my BJ BR is now and can review it on line whenever she wants to, so I do not think she is worried about BJ having a detrimental effect on our household finances. I think most SOs would be supportive if they could share the perks a little and did not have to worry that BJ was going to effect their financial stability.
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